Before you attend
First Meetings
11 articles
What to actually ask on a first meeting
A first meeting works best when both people move past small talk quickly. Instead of generic questions, ask about daily routines, how they handle…
50 Questions to Ask a Potential Spouse at Your First Meeting
Meeting a potential spouse for the first time can feel exciting, awkward and serious at the same time. You know that the conversation is…
From First Meeting to Serious Match: What Should Happen Next?
A successful first meeting with a potential spouse does not mean that marriage is now inevitable. It means something much simpler: there is enough…
Green Flags to Look for When Meeting a Potential Spouse
When people talk about Muslim matchmaking, the conversation often focuses heavily on: red flags; deal-breakers; warning signs; things to avoid. Those are important.
How to Assess Compatibility on a First Meeting
A first meeting with a potential spouse can produce a lot of emotion but surprisingly little clarity if you do not know what you…
How to End a First Meeting and Decide What Happens Next
The end of a first meeting with a potential spouse can sometimes feel more awkward than the beginning. You may have spent thirty minutes,…
How to Know if a First Meeting Went Well
After meeting a potential spouse for the first time, one of the most common questions is: “Did that actually go well?” Sometimes the answer…
How to Prepare for a Second Meeting With a Potential Spouse
A second meeting with a potential spouse is different from the first. The first meeting is usually about broad compatibility. You are trying to…
Red Flags to Watch for When Meeting a Potential Spouse
Meeting a potential spouse is not only about discovering what you like. It is also about noticing whether there are behaviours, attitudes or circumstances…
What to Talk About on Your First Meeting With a Potential Spouse
The first meeting with a potential spouse can feel surprisingly difficult, not because there is nothing to discuss, but because there is so much…
Your First Meeting With a Potential Spouse: A Complete Muslim Guide
The first meeting with a potential spouse can feel unusually important. You know the conversation is not simply social. Both of you are there…